September 30th, 2012Gathering Strength, my book of conversations with Afghan women, is published! I will have books in my hands by October 8th and on Amazon sometime around early November. (email me if you want me to send you a copy before November.) The writing process has taken nearly two and a half years but really, Gathering Strength is the culmination of ten years with The Afghan Women's Project including two trips to Afghanistan. It's been over a year since my last post. I couldn't tear myself away from writing and editing to write about the book. Now it's the end of an era of narrow focus with a workaholic intensity. When I started working on Gathering Strength I never imagined that I was capable of creating a work this profound and this beautiful. Of course it wasn't all, or maybe even mostly my doing. Editing, layout and cover design have shaped this book into a form worthy of the Afghan women who shared their thoughts and stories with me. From my last day in Afghanistan in May 2012, when I realized that I needed to and could write a book, I only knew that that I'd need an editor and that I would self-publish so I could maintain control over the material and the timing of publication. As I worked, I found that this book had a life and timing of its own and all I could do was to work as hard as I could (in a way balanced for the long haul) and be open to what came my way. Realizing that probably kept me from going crazy while trying to select from the myriad publishing and other options and it helped me be patient with my unrealistic imagined timeframe. Thankfully, during the writing and editing, when I awoke in the mornings, I was driven out of bed to begin the day's writing, a much different experience from the resistance I'd felt during past writing efforts. By the end I couldn't wait for the writing/editing to be completed, but I never felt it to be drudgery. As I wrote my early drafts, I dreamed of handing over the manuscript to someone who would transform it into a finished book for me; a knight in shining armor. Oh, well, that didn't happen. Instead, I worked closely with my editors, going back and forth over different points, sometimes changing my mind, sometimes not. It felt good to have the last word. The transition from writing and managing my book project to putting it out into the world has been difficult. I suddenly find myself procrastinating and being distracted by the many different fronts I have to engage. Hopefully, soon, I will find my stride. Frequent posting in this blog is one of those new efforts. I'll end this post with a quote from the only writer in Gathering Strength, Roya. She says: I'm going to change my life and think differently. I'm going to experience the things that are my right. I have to show my sisters, my friends, my family, and Afghan women all over the world that we can change if we have a chance.